Hempen Funeral Home Library
Because we care we have a large variety of books and videos for
children and adults.
We also offer pamphlets on the following subjects, free of charge, as part of our extended service. If you or any one you know needs any of these pamphlets please call us. Children and Death Losing a Child Losing a Parent Losing a Spouse Losing a Grandparent Losing a Friend Suicide Links
BOOKS AND VIDEOS FOR CHILDREN AND TEENS
THE FALL OF FREDDIE THE LEAF By Dr. Leo Buscaglia
A metaphorical story of life and death, and the changing seasons of life. Color photographs.
I HEARD YOUR MOMMY DIED By Mark Scrivani
Children ages two to six can
relate to this book. Children know they can cry, be sad, play, and remember Mommy. Their love never dies.
I HEARD YOUR DADDY DIED By Mark Scrivani
Memories, keepsakes, and wearing Daddy's T-shirts for sleepshirts are all encouraged. Feelings are affirmed and children know they are loved.
LIFE TIMES By Bryan Mellonie & Robert Ingpen
This book explains life and death in a beautiful and caring way, and is directed toward younger children. Lifetimes tells about beginnings, endings, and the living in between, and the Fact that dying is a part of living. Beautiful illustrations.
WHAT ON EARTH DO YOU DO WHEN SOMEONE DIES? By Trevor Romain
When Trevor Romain's father died, he didn't know what to do, say, or feel. He began writing about his experiences and feelings, and he talks directly to kids about death and how to cope. Full of concrete advice, comfort, and reassurance.
STRAIGHT TALK ABOUT DEATH FOR TEENAGERS: By Earl A. Grollman
How to Cope with Losing Someone You Love. Earl Grollman speaks directly to the hearts and minds of teenagers who are coping with the death of a family member or friend. Excellent advice and worldly wisdom from an author who understands both grief and teenagers.
WHEN A FRIEND DIES By Marilyn E. Gootman, Ed.D.
Directed towards teens, this book focuses on the specific emotions and turmoil they feel after losing a friend. Also, ideal for parents and teachers of grieving teens.
AARVY AARDVARK FINDS HOPE (VIDEO)
Aarvy's family has all been taken far, far away, and Aarvy is full of despair and hopelessness. Ralphie Rabbit befriends Aarvy and helps him learn about the strengths within himself. Provides loving validation and helps a child heal and grow.
WHAT'S HEAVEN? By Marie Shriver
Marie Shriver beautifully illustrates what parents can say to their children to explain death, heaven, funerals and how our loved ones souls live on through us.
STANDING TALL (VIDEO)
Seven teenagers share their stories of dealing with a loved one's death. They tell how they heard the news, how they felt, and how they coped and moved on. Included in their stories: deaths of a grandfather, father, mother, brother, sister, cousin, and aunt.
BOOKS AND VIDEOS FOR ADULTS
LIVING WHEN A LOVED ONE HAS DIED By Earl Grollman
In this best selling guide to coping with grief, easy-to-read meditations help us cope with denial, anger, loss, letting go, and moving on.
REMEMBERING WITH LOVE By E. Levang and S. Lise
These messages of hope are short, readable pages that affirm, support, and teach about loss and love.
HELPING THE GRIEVING STUDENT: A Guide for Teachers By The Dougy Center
Discusses the grieving process that occurs in every age group from toddlers to teens. Each section lists common behaviors to expect and gives advice on helping each age group cope. Special focus is placed on helping school-aged children cope with death.
HOW CAN I HELP?
By June Cerza Kolf
Author June Cerza Kolf offers expert advise on the grieving process. A hospice coordinator and bereavement director, Kolf shares real-life stories and walks readers through the grieving process, step-by-step.
WHEN PARENTS DIE: A guide for adults By Edward Myers
Explores in detail the emotional impact such as depression, sibling conflict, guilt, even physical distress - that a parent's death may cause.
WHY ARE THE CASSEROLES ALWAYS TUNA? By Darcie D. Sims
A loving look at the lighter side of grief that affirms the normalcy of grief again and again through laughter as well as tears.
HELP, COMFORT, AND HOPE AFTER LOSING YOUR BABY By Hannah Lothrop
IN PREGNANCY OR THE FIRST YEAR Part One speaks to those who have lost a child through miscarriage, stillbirth, neonatal death, sudden infant death, or termination of pregnancy, and guides parents through the experience of bereavement, Part Two provides information for caregivers who are helping parents through this difficult time, such as funeral directors, ministers, hospital staff, and support group members. Insightful and warmly written.
EMPTY CRADLE, BROKEN HEART By Deborah L. Davis
Comprehensive and sensitive book showing a wide range of experiences following the death of a baby and offering ways to cope.
AFTER YOU SAY GOODBYE By Paul Kent Froman, Ph.D.
When someone you love dies of AIDS Focuses on the unique problems and emotions that affect those left behind after someone has died of AIDS. Separate sections are devoted to dealing with fear, anger, and discrimination.
SURVIVORS OF SUICIDE By Rita Robins
No one is ever prepared for suicide, but this book can help both survivors and the general public acknowledge and cope with it.
HOW WILL I GET THROUGH THE HOLIDAYS? By James E. Miller
This book helps bereaved people get through the emotionally charged holiday season while coping with the death of a loved one. Offers twelve ideas for navigating through such periods with many specific suggestions, and includes several thoughtful, time-honored quotations.
HEAVEN'S NOT A CRYING PLACE By Joey O'Connor
( Book also available on Video) This book answers some tough questions that push parents out of their comfort zones. If our children are to develop a healthy understanding of life and death, we must be willing to answer their innocent questions about eternal matters.
WHAT HELPED ME WHEN MY LOVED ONE DIED By Earl A. Grollman
A helpful collection of very real and honest feelings by the only people who really know- those who have been through it.
LOSING A PARENT By Foina Marshall
Losing a parent suddenly or to terminal illness brings about a particular kind of grief. Whatever your circumstance, this book will guide and support you through your loss.
LIFE AFTER LOSS By Bob Deits
(A personal Guide Dealing with Death, Divorce, Job Change and Relocation) Here is a positive sensitive approach for successful recovery from painful loss, including the death of a loved one or a friend, divorce, relocation, job loss, retirement, major surgery or onset of chronic illness.
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All resource books and material may be checked out for free by contacting Hempen Funeral Home (618) 588-3533 or (618) 526-7633 or (618) 228-7253 or (618)248-5408.